Kira Schlesinger: The Reverend Kira Schlesinger is the interim rector of St. Ann's Episcopal Church. She has lived in Nashville since 2008 and received a Masters of Divinity degree from Vanderbilt Divinity School. Below, she shares with us the origins and importance of her name. 

William Shakespeare famously wrote, “What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” And yet, many of us are fiercely protective of our names; we take offense when people mispronounce or misspell them. Our names are who we are and how we are known in the world. Soon-to-be parents often spend a lot of time and energy deciding on a name for their child, potentially exploring religious or familial connections. Names follow certain trends, going through phases of popularity and switching from traditionally male names to traditionally female ones.

My name is Kira, which is a pretty unusual name. I never could find it printed on keychains or other souvenir paraphernalia alongside the Laurens and the Sarahs. When my parents were expecting my arrival, they wanted a name that started with a ‘K’ since they are Karen and Ken, but they were also looking for something different. A young woman in the neighborhood happened to be named Kira, and it piqued their interest. Ayn Rand’s first novel “We the Living” also features a female protagonist named Kira.

The Anglicized name Kira can be traced back to a number of different languages including Greek, Russian, Gaelic, and Japanese and might also be a feminine version of the Sanskrit name “Kiran” which means “beam of light.” Whatever its origin, as I have grown up, I’ve come to embrace having an unusual name.

While “family” seems like a simple concept to define, it’s just not that easy. There isn’t one definition for family, as it can mean different things to different people.  A family is not necessarily a husband and wife and their 2.5 children. Families differ in economic, social, and cultural backgrounds, and can be made up of moms, dads, grandparents, siblings, step-siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, pets, and much more. That said, one thing that universally defines a family in my opinion are people that are important to you, you can rely on, and you share memories with.

For me, my friends are a significant part of my family. I grew up with a mom, dad, sister, two cats, and a dog – all of whom I was very close with. And while I was close with my grandparents when they were alive, my extended family – aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. – didn’t live close by so we didn’t spend a lot of time together and form relationships. Instead, my family spent many summer vacations, holidays, and birthdays with very close “family friends” as we called it. I referred to them as my aunts, uncles, and cousins, although we were not technically related by blood. 

This idea of “family friends” was an important and common concept from an early age, and it’s why I’ve formed such strong friendships throughout my life that truly mean the world to me. Along with my immediate family, these friends are the people I’ve formed great memories with and who have always been there for me during the happy and tough times, and vice versa.

My definition of family is just one meaning. How do you define family and what does it mean to you? Let us know in the comments below or post on social media and tag ENHE and use the hashtag #LiteracyIsJustice!

How do I use literacy in my day job? My day job is simple: I help my clients manage their resources effectively, so they can be meaningful stewards in the communities they serve.  I cannot be successful in my job without literacy. Literacy, simply put, is the state of being educated.  I didn’t know how to do my job well on day one; I had to use the tools I gained through school and work experience to help me along the way.  
 
So, literacy in my day job looks much like a toolbox. I am fortunate to have tools that support my continuous learning much like a carpenter needs multiple tools to build a house.  Before you hit snooze, I won’t bore you with the details of life as a banker.  Insert any passion you wish to turn into a profession, and these tools work.  They may not be called hammer or wrench but they are as effective at building an environment of lifelong learning as building a home.
 
Reading: I bet all of us read something in a work day.  Reading is a critical skill and is the gateway to opportunity. Taking this skill a step further, I read job related materials to comprehend. When a client sends an email with an issue, I read beyond the words on the page to attempt to understand what the person is trying to communicate.  Reading has always been a critical skill; and even more so in a digital age where people tend to prefer to communicate by written message.  
 
Writing: As much as I read, I write in equal amounts throughout my work day.  Writing serves multiple purposes. I might write an email to someone to communicate a message.  I also write notes to help prioritize tasks or work through a project or issue.  Like reading, the writing I create for work is not simply words on a page; they serve a purpose to connect with others, solve issues and find proactive solutions to make my clients’ lives easier.
 
Critical Thinking: In my line of work, reading and writing are two very close companions in helping me critically think through my day and tasks.  I don’t simply want to fulfill a request.  I use reading and writing to ensure I have given the very best solution to help my clients achieve their goals.
 
Reading. Writing. Critical thinking.  These are skills that help anyone achieve success in the workplace.  All three skills open the door to never ending possibility of learning and opportunity.